Sorry if we confused anyone!
For Thursday, when we say come as you are, we mean it! Shorts, t-shirts, sun dresses -- anything goes!
For Friday, it's "smart casual." Maybe not such a smart idea since we've had so many people ask what that means! Just wear what you would wear to a decent restaurant in your hometown. We hope this helps!
For Saturday, it's cocktail attire. For men, we mean suits or any other comprable outfit you would wear to a formal wedding that is not black tie. For women, a nice dress. Please do not show up in a tux or a ball gown (unless of course you're in the wedding party or just really feeling like you want to dress to impress!).